Ahmed Shehab - 60 Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love, and the romance alive!
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This is a very beautiful and touching talk. Infact even non-muslims would benefit so much from this talk that their relationships would be so much better. HIGHLY recommend you watch this if you don't want to end up in divorce.. Just the little things you do such as surprising your wife with gifts is how you can keep the romance alive.. Make good notes and study them well and you will see the happiness in your wife's eyes. Also sisters can watch this as the advice can be applied towards the husband too! Please submit comments on this video and we will forward them to Ahmad Shehab.
Great Effort. Need this in shape of book. Regards.
Assalamu Alaykum to my sisters who are finding themselves lost in the marriage.
I have been married for 12 years and I have practiced patience for my rights that are not given to me for many years. I have practiced 'you be the better one and give him everything he desires', however still to no avail and I am always attacked because I simply asking for my rights that I have been patient with for many, many years.
My next move before divorce is to ignore him and I'm not doing anything for him. Remeber it is not your duty to do these things for him, but many men think these household duties are our responsibilities. When a man gets everything that he needs, food, clean ironed clothes, pleasures in the bedroom, if he has been cold to your needs, he won't be affected because he is getting what he wants. Remember the marital home should be a safe haven. You as a wife should be reassures of his love, secure in your marriage and finances. Like the Sheikh said early on, when the man is happy, only one person is happy and some men need a shock - a wake up call before the wife asks for divorce. Keep making dua for Allah to give you what is good for your Iman and Akhira. Your sis in Iman.
hey salam..i really want you to send me the email address of sheikh Ahmed Shehab. i have met him a year ago in a masjid and asked him couple of questions on doing hifz... however, i have lost his email and his phone number too (which he gave me!) i wud really appreciate if i can get some kind of contact for him as i REALLY need to talk to him for couple of issues . jazakAllah khair. salam alaikum.
Asalamu-alaikum-wah_rahmeth-illahi waberkatahu,masha allah I like what u said,dats really good,I appriciate u,allah bless u with every step of ur life,may allah bless every momin,allah bless every muslim to expand islam all over the world with love n mercy,with understanding each other,the main thing in islam is understanding n rite path to din,allah bless every muslim to walk on rite path(I m very sorry if I did any mistake becoz I m typing dis with different device)so will u plz help u,dat u sell any cd's dat I can gift my husband,I will b very thankfull,plz do rememmber every musalman in duva,allah bless evey1 with piece n prosperty(ameen)jazak-allah-kher,fi-aman-illah,asalamu-alaikum
assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu,
alhamdulillah, it was a very inspiring speech! may allah reward for ur work and i will do dua for u as well..iam married and i thank allah subhanahu wa taala for providing me such a wonderful husband...we r happy but these points will still improve the quality of our relationship...its a reminder to the believers..may allah bless all the married ones to follow the path acceptable to allah subhanahu wa taala...
salam walakum. i listened to this speech/lecture about how to keep a happy marriage twice. The points are so obvious yet many go unpracticed and become normal. This should be tranferred into a book or some form of litreture.
thank you sheikh ahmed for your words of wisdom.
Salaam brother, please can I have your email adress so that I may get some advice regarding mu husband. I do not know how to make him love me and show me some affection. I have tried everything to no effect.Anxiously waiting your response.
wassalam
your sister in deen
Salam alaikum, I just read the last sister's comments. Suponallah, that is my story too. The only difference is I have been married 5 years. I have looked on line to buy this lecture to give him to listen to as he is seldom home to hear it. I figured a cd could pack up nicely in the car or at work. I have not been able to find it and things have never changed. I have now separated from my husband. I wish the sister with the below comment all the best and hope her situation will improve. Inshallah
salaam brother, it really is a good talk. I wish my husband would implement even half of this. Unfortunately I have a husband who imbibes none of these points. Please can you tell me what to do.I have been married for 4 years and have had nothing from my husband except grief.I have tried many different approaches to help him understand my needs and to help him fulfill his responsibilities but it seems he is happy living as a guest who eats and sleeps and nothing else. I have to work to maintain the family and pay the bills.He also expects me to be a fulltime mum and wife and if something is not done on time then I am criticised for it.He also degrades me in front of my family by saying things like I can't cook, which is funny as he has put on at least 3-4 stones since we married.I would be grateful if you could provide me with some advice as I am now at the end of my tethers.
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu
Well Alhamdulillah, masha Allah, the lecture was wanderfull and i've gain a lot from it. May Allah increase you in knowledge. May he have mercy upon you, forgive you your sins and accept your noble effort...
But brother, i have a little problem and that is i lost the love of my husband.. i mean i no longer love him and am fining it difficult to live with him.. i no longer find comfort in my husband.. and i've realised that staying with him is really affecting my realigion.. i mean am becoming weak in both imaan amaal... please tell me what to do and reply me as soon as possible..
because i can't afford to loose my deen just because of a man...
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